Trophy Girl

March 10, 2009

there are 4 types of girls:

(1) loser        (2) acceptable         (3) Presentable           (4) Trophy

 actually sa tagalog, hindi puwede….. ok lang….. pwede……. at panalo! so where are you standing on this categories? at your age of twenty something? how have your genes brought you so far or the effort you have put in making yourself attractive.

you know what’s a loser already.

acceptable - you are nice. you have a job. looks is okay. hindi ka naman mpapahiya..  in tagalog. ok lang.

presentable - lesser of a trophy girl. (lets put the punches on explaining what is a trophy girl)

 trophy girl -  should have a car, have good smooth and milky skin. nic shiny hair, teeth. answers nicely. has a nice well modulated voice. dresses well. not slutty. walks well on nice structured shoes and bag. has read a couple of good books. always smells good. always clean. table is clean. well read. and of course beautiful.

we can wait on divine love for our soulmate to find us but if you’ll work on your look, you attract the same level as you are. sloppy girls get sloppy boyfriends. but try not to be a trophy girlfriend. you dont want to be displayed only. be a skilled girlfriend. know how to take care of your man.

how to keep the relationship alive?

November 29, 2008

Keeping the relationship alive ???

Avoid giving too much pressure on urself & with ur partner just to make ur relationship work … just try to enjoy ur relationship …. dahil when u try to make and keep things light between u & ur partner … mas magiging easy for both of u to “hold on” dahil u have more reasons to keep on holding on ….

Syempre u need to set ur priorities as a couple and as an individual upang mapanatili nyo ang “harmony” sa relasyon nyo habang napapanatili nyo ang inyong “personal growth” as individuals which will be a great help for ur relationship …

Do things bcoz its what u feel and NOT bcoz its what uve expected to feel ….. dahil kapag ginawa mo lang ang bawat bagay dahil ito ang inaasahan mula sayo o dahil sa ito ang “role” mo … ay magiging isang “routine” na lang maski ang pagpapadama ng pagmamahal …. dahil ang pagmamahal ay KUSANG lumalabas kahit HINDI ito utusan …. mas masarap yung mahalin ka sa pamamaraan na kayang ibigay sayo ng bukal sa puso ….

Know & Learn the language of love tht ur partner is using para mas higit mong madama at mapahalagahan ang pagmamahal na ibinibigay sayo … upang HINDI mo magawang i-compare ang pagmamahal na binibigay mo sa natatanggap mo ….

And LOVE ur partner for what she is and for what she is not … wag mong baguhin sya sa kung ano ang gusto mo … kelangan mo syang tanggapin bilang kung ano sya …. kung may kakulangan o kamalian man sya …. wag mo syang UTUSAN na magbago bagkus ay akayin mo sya sa pagbabago para sa pansarili nyang kabutihan … at kaya ginagawa mo ito dahil sa mahal mo sya at mahalaga sya sa buhay mo ….

To all the kids who were born 1950’s, 60′ s, 70’s and early 80’s !!

September 30, 2008

 i got this email before and today i got it again. i bet that all you twenty something can relate to this. i know because i was born early 80’s. Let’s celebrate yesteryears for this article. we’re made tougher by the way we are brought up by our parents, with the kind of environment we grew up, an the kind of culture we had. something that is a little extinct today. happy reading.

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First, some of us survived being born to mothers who did not have an OB-Gyne and drank San Miguel Beer while they carried us.

While pregnant, they took cold or cough medicine, a te isaw, and didn’t worry about diabetes.

Then after all that trauma, our baby cribs were made of hard wood covered with lead-based paints, pati na yung walker natin, matigas na kahoy din at wala pang gulong.

We had no soft cushy cribs that play music, no disposable diapers (lampin lang), and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, no kneepads , sometimes wala pang preno yung bisikleta.

As children, we would ride in hot un-airconditioned buses with wooden seats (yung JD bus na pula), or cars with no airconditioning & no seat belts (ngayon lahat may aircon na)

Riding on the back of a carabao on a breezy summer day was considered a treat. (ngayon hindi na nakakakita ng kalabaw ang mga bata)

We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle purchased from 711 (minsan straight from the faucet or poso)

We shared one soft drink bottle with four of our friends, and NO ONE actually died from this.

We ate rice with star margarine, drank raw eggs straight from the shell, and drank sofdrinks with real sugar in it (hindi diet coke), but we weren’t sick or overweight kasi nga……

WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, and get back when the streetlights came on. Sarap mag patintero, tumbang preso, habulan at taguan.

No one was able to reach us all day ( di uso ang cellphone , walang beepers ) . And yes, we were O.K.

We would spend hours building our wooden trolleys (yung bearing ang gulong) or plywood slides out of scraps and then ride down the street , only to find out we forgot the brakes! After hitting the sidewalk or falling into a canal (seweage channel) a few times, we learned to solve the problem ourselves with our bare & dirty hands .

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo’s, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 100 channels on cable, no DVD movies, no surround stereo, no IPOD’s, no cell phones, no computers, no Internet, no chat rooms, and no Friendsters. …… …WE HAD REAL FRIENDS and we went outside to actually talk and play with them!

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no stupid lawsuits from these accidents. The only rubbing we get is from our friends with the words..masakit ba ? pero pag galit yung kalaro mo,,,,ang sasabihin sa iyo..beh buti nga !

We played marbles (jolens) in the dirt , washed our hands just a little and ate dirty ice cream & fish balls. we were not afraid of getting germs in our stomachs.

We had to live with homemade guns ” gawa sa kahoy, tinali ng rubberband , sumpit , tirador at kung ano ano pa na puedeng makasakitan. .pero masaya pa rin ang lahat.

We made up games with sticks ( syatong ), and cans ( tumbang preso )and although we were told they were dangerous, wala naman tayong binulag o napatay.paminsan minsan may nabubukulan lang.

We walked, rode bikes, or took tricycles to a friend’s house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them to jump out the window!

Mini basketball teams had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn’t pass had to learn to deal with the disappointment. Wala yang mga childhood depression at damaged self esteem ek-ek na yan. Ang pikon, talo.

Ang magulang ay nandoon lang para tignan kung ayos lang ang mga bata, hindi para makialam at makipag-away sa ibang parents.

That generation of ours has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers, creative thinkers and successful professionals ever! They are the CEO’s, Engineers, Doctors and Military Generals of today.

The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas.

We had failure, success, and responsibility. We learned from our mistakes the hard way.

You might want to share this with others who’ve had the luck to grow up as real kids. We were lucky indeed.

And if you like, forward it to your kids too, so they will know how brave their parents were.

It kind of makes you wanna go out and climb a tree, doesn’t it?!

 

How to make your guy worship you

September 11, 2008

You are twenty-something and u wanna know how to make your guy say WOW! There are a lot of things actually. If your friend told you to just be nice. The question is, what do nice people do? You just can’t get to focus on it but in your head, you just know how. These are some of the tricks I have compiled to share to all the ladies out there. there are 40 but if u have more ideas, let us know ^_^

  

1.)                Mouth “you’re so guapo” when the waiter of his friend had their heads back.

2.)                Blow his ear or kiss him before heading the door

3.)                Tell him you had a great time

4.)                Be friends with his friends

5.)                Don’t compromise the things you do for him

6.)                Plan dates for them

7.)                Know his favourite beer, cooked egg, and chicken

8.)                Wear lingerie

9.)                Don’t open your book or watch tv when he’s beside you.

10.)             Tell him he’s smart as hell and great at his job

11.)             Find out more what he’s like to his friends and relatives

12.)             Ask him “do I look okay?”

13.)             Admit your embarrassing and stupid stuff

14.)             When he commands an audience, tell the joke right

15.)             An unsolicited backrub after sex

16.)             Don’t make a deal if he cries

17.)             Ask his favourites

18.)             Love his family and show him

19.)             Tell him how to kiss you

20.)             Be comfortable with yourself

21.)             Let the little things go

22.)             Say “thank you” in every chance

23.)             Buy something he likes (like little toys, bread, pen, book)

24.)             Talk serious stuff like the news

25.)             Introduce him as your awesome bf

26.)             Worry about him like wear his seatbelt

27.)             Stay mysterious. Don’t always tell exactly

28.)             Tell his folks wonderful things he said

29.)             Button his shirt. Hanger his clothes

30.)             Kiss his shoulders when sleeping

31.)             Don’t make him come home early

32.)             Be a little possessive

33.)             Don’t make fun of him

34.)             Call him out if he’s slacking off romance

35.)             Don’t be controlling

36.)             Don’t whine to much

37.)             Develop your nurturing side

38.)             Make him see you at work

39.)             Make him watch you play badminton and win.

40.)            Try to be a trophy girl pero yung hindi maarte.

 

got this at: http://www.toptipsforgirls.com/tip/how_to_to_make_your_guy_worship_you/16291/

Workplace etiquette: In a mtg. In a group

September 9, 2008

Business meeting etiquette

• Be punctual. If you are late, apologise briefly but sincerely and immediately give total attention to the meeting. Those who wish to leave early should ask their seniors’ permission beforehand. Leave quietly, with an ‘excuse me’ and catch the eye of the person who is talking at that point.
• Dress well — it gives a good impression.
• Always remember to switch of your mobile phone.
• If there is an established seating pattern, accept it. If you are unsure, ask.
• Do your homework; get all your facts and figures in order. Go prepared.
• Acknowledge any introductions or opening remarks with a brief recognition of the chair and other participants.
• When discussions are underway it is good business etiquette to allow more senior figures to contribute first.
• Never interrupt anyone — even if you disagree strongly. Note what has been said and return to it later with the chair’s permission.
• When speaking, be brief and ensure that what you say is relevant.
• It is a serious breach of business etiquette to divulge what has been discussed at any meeting with a third party — consider it confidential.
• Thanking the person who organised the meeting is not only good etiquette; it is also a sign of respect.

Keep competition within the organisation healthy

• A team tends to behave like a human body, accepting what is part of it and rejecting any alien tissue. People are accepted if their behaviour mirrors the group norms.
• Faults and blunders usually take place due to lack of communication. Find out the cause of the mess-up and solve the problem so that it is not repeated.
• Curb your annoyance and control your temper.
• Do not strive to pull a colleague down just to get the approval of the boss. This will backfire on you in the long run.
• Back-stabbing and petty talk is not only unpleasant, it is in poor taste.
• A secure and efficient worker never grudges another’s success. Envy and jealousy among co- workers ruins the working environment for everyone. The following notice, seen on several office walls, gets the point across

acknowledgement goes to:: http://in.rediff.com/getahead/2008/aug/25work.htm